I’ve talked about 3-ways (Thai boys call it a sandwich) before, but I don’t think I’ve actually gone into detail on how you set one up with the rent boys. There is no guarantee these will go well, any more than it would with just one boy. But there are some things you can do to greatly improve your chances of having a good time.

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The most likely candidates for a sandwich are boys in Go Go bars. First select your “number 1″ boy, and make sure he knows he’s number 1. It doesn’t make any difference if he is a top or bottom, but he does need to agree to the sandwich, before you off him. For what its worth, bottoms will most likely gravitate toward more manly and muscular tops, while the tops will probably do the opposite, so keep this in mind when selecting your number 1 boy.

Leave his bar and go someplace different to find the second boy. Never try to off both boys from the same bar…it won’t work, because the boys will be VERY uncomfortable. Your first boy gets to pick the other boy. You can veto his selection, but ultimately it has to be a boy he likes. Once a boy is selected, call him to your table and let the first boy do most of the talking to see if the other is willing. Just because you picked him doesn’t mean he will be into doing a sandwich. Don’t force the boy to select someone from the first bar you take him. If he can’t find a boy he likes, and you like, take him to another bar and another.

Do your best to avoid letting the boy select a friend of his. Friends do not have sex together, so it is a recipe for disaster and a big red flag they are setting you up. Most likely they will just go through the motions and try to get things wrapped up as quickly as possible.

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Once you have the two lined up, go to another bar, one they don’t work in, and have a few drinks to get the boys loosened up a little, but don’t let them get drunk. During the evening, make sure you give both boys attention, but give the number 1 boy slightly more than the other. You don’t need to tell the second boy he is number two…he already knows.

Once back in the room, let the boys watch TV and visit with each other for awhile before getting down to business. Chances are one, or both, will also want to take a shower before starting the sex.

The going rate for short-time and long-time differs from one town to the next. In Pattaya it’s 500 for short and 1000 for long. Regardless of the standard rate, add 500 to it when asking the boys to do a sandwich.

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This is one time when I suggest negotiating up front the length of stay for each boy. I typically off a top for the number one boy and take him long time, then off the bottom for short time. By offing the number one boy for long time you are reinforcing the fact he is number one, and responsible for keeping an eye on the other boy. If he’s good, the bottom will often stay the night but you only have to pay him short time, because it was his idea to hang around.

Some boys actually enjoy sandwiches. If you find one, latch onto him for future 3-ways. The likelihood of you having a disappointing experience goes way down when you have a boy that’s really into it.

Do NOT let the mamasan get involved with your selections. Her job is to make the bar money, so she will tell the boys to do things they don’t want to just to get the off fee.